"Sajha dominated the conversation that evening. Back then the leading lights of Sajha were people we don't see much of these days. No one talked about Sajha without mentioning them. Two very talented guys happened to be her favorite posters. I was immediately jealous. I was tempted to say something to pull them down. Except that I couldn't think of anything as I actually liked them up until that point. My better senses prevailed and I let her go on about how witty one was and how sharp the other was. When it was my turn, I talked about two girls who wrote great stories . I looked for the faintest sign of jealousy in her eyes. I couldn't find any. I felt foolish for having let that tinge of jealousy come over me." That was so interesting. I had exactly the same experience those days. Sajha being the only major gathering place for us. These days it is not dominated by anyone, and that's a real democratization of sajha.