Let’s not bullshit around and have some wise discussion based on reality! Both sexes (guys/girls) have to realize that women and men were not created equally by nature. No matter how modern or educated we become, we can not escape from the fact that we are just one of a kind of animal in the broad animal kingdom. Man was created as a provider/protector and woman was created as a nurturer/mother. That is why men are more testosterone driven, tougher bigger and aggressive whereas women are estrogen driven, softer smaller and delicate. One standard can not be applied when valuing two different creations. When calibrating flowers the beauty and purity counts and when calibrating a stem that holds the flower toughness and strength counts; so there is a double standard. If it comes to basic animal level, equality does not apply. When we are taking about physical relationship, it is purely an animal thing. It’s our animal instincts that males want delicacy and softness in their females and females want toughness and muscleness in their males. When looking at the animal instincts level, being too sexually active can surely be associated with less delicacy, less softness and less purity (thus, for female it makes them less desirable to male) where as being too sexually active is can rarely be associated with less toughness (thus, for male it really does not affect on how desirable they are to female). Whether there is physical relationship or not, sharing room with boyfriend before marriage is being too sexually active. So, whether you like it or not, being too sexually active definitely hurts girls than guys. In the name of equality girls are making themselves cheap and being proud while doing it. How stupid is that? We can not make two things equal when nature itself created them different. So, my suggestion is to live how the nature wanted you to live rather than discussing why that is so. Nobody ever can defeat nature and anybody who wants to go against nature will surely ruin themselves but nobody else.