I can't imagine why Nepaliboy111's simple enquiry is being blown out of proportion in here! He's asking a simple question! What do we all think about a Nepali girl sharing a room with her boyfriend ( or a Nepali girl living with her boyfriend and sharing her bed with him ). We, Nepalese, no matter how hard we try are different than the yanks culturally! Regardless of how hard we try to copy and enforce ourselves to live like the yanks, the aftermath of a breakup might be devastating as bibas pointed out! Sillygirl, you're misunderstanding what's being asked in here! Nobody's asking if it's ok for a girl to have sex with her boyfriend! Love making is a part of a relationship and in this modern era, nobody gives a damn about virgin wives ( unless the guy's a sick moron ). The thread asks if it's good for a girl to live with her boyfriend and you've said that if a guy can do it then why can't a girl ( correct me if im wrong ). Let me ask you this, if you broke up with your boyfriend ( after living with him for a year or so ) and your prospective hubby to be ( be it a Nepali guy living in Nepal or here in the U.S. ) came to find out about it, do you think that he's gonna accept you as his wife? Do you think that a girl is gonna reject your ex=boyfriend who you lived with over a year after knowing that he lived with you for that long?! No! That's where we boys get the upperhand in the unfair and unjust Nepali society. Understand what I'm saying? To my understanding, the thread enquires if it's a good idea for a Nepali girl to live with her boyfriend and share the same bed in stead of living with few other Nepali girls and continuing a relationship at the same time! In my personal opinion, a girl and a guy living together before getting married is asking for trouble unless the relationship is deep ( only god knows how deep though ). The outcome could be devastating, especially for the girl if she happens to be a Nepali. It's not a massive task for a guy to "dump" a chick that he had been living with and moving on but for a girl, it's a big ordeal. Plus, I feel that it's more fun to go and see my girlfriend for a few hours every day and having had to return back home ( which ensures that there's no boredom involved and willingness to see the significant other is always fresh ). After all there's the thing called "marriage" after which I have all the time in the world to get bored but surely not before getting married! Anyways, that's what I felt about this thread! Feel free to disagree or agree w/ me- it's your choice. But I wanna repeat myself again! It's not a big task for a Nepali guy to dump the girl he's been living with for quite some time and moving on, but the aftermath of a breakup could prove not only devastating but Costly as well ! IF a girl were to return back to Nepal after coming off such relationship ( involving living together ) and if the people she knew were to know about it, then her life would be in jeopardy, thanks to you guessed it right- the suck Nepali society! Therefore, it's always a wise idea to have a relationship in stead of "living together" as it could prevent us from lots of hassles in our future lives!