logmein --- u married a westernized advanced girl and now supposedly ur asking for a divorce after 8 yrs. kinda funny ud say ud rather marry a cultural nepali rather than a westernized advanced girl. yet now how fair do u find urself?? before entering the minds of others, or giving advice friendly or unfriendly, or plain and simply responding to someone elses "fairness" plz think of ur own situation and see how fair u really are, not to the girl of 8 yrs but the child of 6. have a nice day sir!