Manvi, I am very happy to see you back. As a woman, I do understand well how a girl/woman gets hurt by such things. I also, never could tolerate such things. But, believe me; I have been in this chautari since a year and I never had to face any problem regarding woman/girl issues. It’s not like some kids or crap people meet here and talk all nonsense. They all are wonderful people possessing some height of intellectuality. They try their best to forget at least for sometime that they are in foreign land. That’s all. Else, who wants to waste time here? You came in chautari, everyone welcomes you, they all made you comfortable to be here and you started flowing through it. What had happened was just a part of consequences that you were involved in. If some came and directly jumped on you, believe me, I would be the first to give him verbal slap. It’s not all personal. It’s for good that you are back. Sorry to write in English, I am bad in nepali language ni ta… he he. Maile ni maan ma lagya lekhidiye, lu jjjjaaaaaaa taaaa! Thulii, you are dear to all here. stay cool girl !!