Nepali_Hero , I feel your pain , man.It is extremely painful to live in a situation like that. However, you have to take responsibility for your actions. You made the decision to marry hastily.I have similar scenerio and at times i do think of divorce . I married because i thought that was the best thing for me to do. Because most of Nepalese are torn between two cultures , it's tough to come to terms like arrage marriage and , although our parents had done it and lived happily everafter,our generation may not . I have decided to take one day at a time and try to mend our relationship although, right now , i feel like there's no hope. I refuse to be the one to destroy her life . I am man enough to live the consequenses of my choice( no matter how stupid it may seem) and may be i can grow out of it ! Again , this is my take on my relationship which resembles yours in some ways but ultimately , no one can decide for you - you are the master of your destiny !