Nepali Hero, I disagree with boston78. If something is unworkable then there is no point dragging it. Believe me it only gets worse. Nepali hero, I think you should break it off clean, if possible and start a new life. If you are not happy at home it’s gonna reflect your work and everything else you do. Its your life, you have right to be happy and I don’t think you should stay in marriage if you are miserable. Divorce is not sacred, as many of us perceive, its just two people coming together to live and raise a family. I can understand, divorce not being an option if you had kids with her. If you don’t then move on… Good luck, Clean slate