preciouszem: you are right, funeral has been taken care of but her sister still has to pay off for the process. Lets not confuse ourselves here, fund is not for the family. As you can imagine Kalpana ko sister hasn't work. There isn't much money and she (sister) just got here last semester and 17 yrs old. I don't know how she is going to get through if we don't help. Again, I can't belive pppl are advocating one cause vs other here. We are know both are important. If someone doesn't want to chip in, please keep it to your self. Thanks