Interesting. This is one of the few threads that i read top to bottom. I do not see any reason to discuss whether it is right to divorce or not in 'nepali_hero''s case because his reasons for divorce are not known. Was it because your wife's side didnt give enough dowry? Was it because you cum damn early? Was it because you have different gf in canada? If these were the reasons, then you will have to be a 'loner' all life. BUT, if the reason is genuine, then you should be able to find a better wife. so, all I would say is, 'There isnt any perfect marriage in this world'. Its like making a minority government. Its good to be selfish, but since you only know your situation, I do not want to name you selfish. If you think thats the better option for not just you but both, then should go for it. When it comes to your entire life, who cares about the society or whatever.