Posted by: NIRAVANA75062 June 12, 2007
Divorce in Nepal - Not fare!!
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When you do arrange marriage without knowing the girl, you have to be ready to bear some consequences. You might be in US or Canada from last couple of years and you might think you are free from all the cultural bondage but people in Nepal are not. And one more thing, you can’t get married and get divorce after six months, “Not in Nepal”. And don’t even try to compare the case with similar case in US or Canada. That makes no sense. You should have married some Girl in US or Canada instead of going to Nepal and doing arranged marriage with some innocent Nepali girl (without fully knowing her). If it’s Kathmandu or some big cites, then it wouldn’t be such big of a deal, but just think how her life will be after the divorce if she is from some remote place outside of Kathmandu. Nepal hero will win if he gets divorce but she will loose either way. I don’t know who is the real one to be blamed here but whoever or whatever is the cause, she is the one will be paying the price for this even though it’s not her fault. Like you said, nobody builds house with weak foundation but your house is already built and doing divorce is like demolishing whole house by thinking foundation is weak. Nobody would suggest that. You can redesign and remodel it instead of breaking that down into pieces. You have full right to speak up your mind and do whatever you want but while doing that you also have to respect others destiny. You are right, Life always does not get along with our knowledge and experience, but your steps of experience shouldn’t be somebody else future. So Nepali Hero, try to find the right solution but I don’t think divorce is the answer for that.
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