send him somewhere where there are no nepalese. That way he would gain full potential and gain experience in living on his own and managing money. And most probably learning english. Which 9/10 people forget when they drop down here. For most people who come first here to a university their main goal is to transfer to a cheaper college drive fancy cars booze out in weekends and get laid and work full time or over time...and keep your degree pending forever.. And for most nepalese if they see other nepalese speaking in other language for example english (coz thats what they speak in the us) their initial reaction is, "english practice gareko or english bhukeko" they dont realize that if you get out of community college and your crappy job you would need to have a good comman in language to be a acceptable in professional field and that does not come in one day needs practice and proper education. Now if you keep sticking with bunch of these types of freinds***hint hing from nepal*** you would never prosper.. Yeah you need friends but keep your friendship aside and goal straight... any way dude life takes you where you go best of luck