Newlymarried, as much as you try to hide it, we all know the guy is you. 

 

C'mon you just met the girl and you expect her to go down??  Gotta make her feel comfortable, secure and trust you before anything happens.  No nice girl ever gives it up on the first meeting!!  LOL

 

Another theory, maybe she's in love with someone else and her parents emotionally black-mailed her into marrying you.  Ask her how she feels before you take any further steps.