I am newar. Few years ago I was about to marry a her who is from so called higher cast of Newar family. I went through so many difficulties to marry her. I almost gave up. Finally I had to run with her and hide for some months. My wife's family still don't accept us. We are still have in trouble with those higher cast family. gahugoro Ji, please give me youth thoughts if you were in my situation. Talking and giving idea is much much easier than being your self in the actual situation.