Don't worry dude...if the congress and President Bush has his final say..the current immigration bill will build a road map towards citizenship for your beloved and then she will be citizen and you will still be either F1/H1B (if you are lucky) or become illegal by then. She will be able to sponsor you for citizenship after that. So don't worry dude...people breaking the rules are awarded everywere...either it be in Nepal (where 3000 per month is being paid to terriority for killing innocent brothers and sisters) and in USA (were illigal are being awarded and we following the rule are being over looked). So, dude don't listen to any one demotivating you...follow your path towards citizenship. Break rule and be awarded.