Step 1 — Get gentler: Relax the lips and facial muscles. Step 2 — (Especially for men) Brush your teeth: If you’re worried about bad breath it’s not the time to be kissing. Step 3 — Understand the difference between kissing and being kissed. Step 4 — Lend an ear to your partner’s kiss. Breathe deeply, relax and try and imagine how your partner feels. Step 5 — Kiss like you’re a member of a gang. Kisses given with imagination can be fun. Sometimes be a master and slave, other times be Antony and Cleopatra.