"I will just try to ignore the whole situation and pretend normal.. And wait for the time to heal my pain.. " Ignoring the whole situation is not the right solution. If you have a problem you should acknowledge it before you can find a solution to it. Ignoring the situation might be temporary solution but the problem you haunt you from time and again until you become very weak to face it. So the first thing is that you sould be able to see the problems that you are facing. see it from your eye, see it from others perspective. Also this relationship can be a great learning experience to you. life is all about learning from your experiences and moving ahead.