Hi Lonely, I know easier said than done. But U should dump him. It's gonna be hard at first, but later time will heal U and you will feel better about yourself...infact you will be proud of yourself to have been strong enough to let go off someone whom you didn't deserve. Believe me..there R plenty of other fishes out in the sea, and k tha? U might meet someone you truely deserve one day. If you keep him, you will be hurting yourself even more. So, why hurt yourself over some idiot who doesn't give a damn? Think about yourself first. It's your life. as for newlymarried: what r u trying to prove? just cause she didn't let you sleep with her, she is not caring? dumbest reasoning I have ever heard. By the sound of it, she was pretty smart to do that.