Hello Highvoltage, thank you for that.. He is not in touch with the other girl and that was just the beginning of an affair and he told me he needs me when I was about to leave him.. I think he is just taking me for granted.I don't know how to sort the problem at all. I tried to shut myself out without complaining. I was just being like the way he was..But it is so painful once you are in a relationship.Not sure!!What is the solution for this weird situation...