Hey there, Don't feel bad..I know we gals are so emotional about these matters.. I know its is shocking news for you.....Yes.. Boys are like that.. Almost all boys do that.. What I would suggest is may be talk to him.. And tell him how u feel openly.. If he tries to shut you out then there is no point trying to win him back.. If he is like honest with you and talks to you then listen to him and sort out the problem. Just my personal thought.. Its not that a real big issue to give up your relationship you have worked so hard for that many years..Better find out what he wants???????????? Good Luck