When you love someone, tell him. And once you tell him, don't keep him waiting. Get married and have a child. That way, you will most likely KKEP him for ever. After marriage, treat him like a lover would--don't take him for granted. Be diplomatically possessive, and not act like Film Censor Board. Let him find in YOU what he is looking in others' pics or company. Lastly, be careful not to act as a nagging wife. A nagger pushes the partner away.