single wannabe: so you just came from nepal and found out all this? or have u been in the US (or wherver u you are tight now)...for a while with him and only recently found out? Well, to let you in n the butter truth, most guys AND girls do visit porn site, if their sigle and just wanna check things out once in a while, but if they're in a relationship, then that's a bit sad. I would talk to him and first request him to not do that. If he doesnt listen, I'd be upfront with him and TELL him not to do it. AND FINALLY, if he doesn't let go of that habit, ID DUMP HIS ASS!!! There's way more nicer Nepali guys than him. Don't feel sad or anything. He'll be the one who'll miss out, not you. You should move on. And this is coming from a guy here.