it might sound offending to non-virgin girls/boys in this forum...but yeah, virginity speaks a lot about a person's nature (good traits) unless he or she was being deprived of the opportunity to sleep in spite of high libido syndrome :P. so i don't think someone, who wants his/her better half to be a virgin, is being completely irrational. :D i am not trying to generalize things here but if somebody is virgin: he/she is more likely... 1) to be MORE committed to his/her better half. 2) to have strong ethics. 3) to have respect to relational values. 4) to be emotionally strong. (which can be good and bad) all of which are very important to pursue a sustainable relationship. of course, exceptions tend to be everywhere. :D LooTe