Hey Racheta, Listen to my advice! First of all I see you sad. The reason for your sadness is not the guy in the first place. You are depressed that you dont have friends there. THe fact that you raise saying you still dont have DL makes me think you are feeling unsecured in US. How long have you been here? You are feeling alone. And you think after the guy come, you will be okay????? NO NO NO. Love is illusion. There is not such thing like love(talking about male female love) Only people who think they need help seek lovers. Strong person dont need lovers. The cure. Be strong be positive. Damn that bf who cant understnd you. Look for some friends( not lovers) who can understand you and who has the same situations. This will make you feel better. Talk to somebody who listens. Keep yourself busy. Dont think of lovers. That will sure help.