I think guys are kind of insecured or for whatever reason they act like this. But that doesn mean that you have to listen to him and feel bad at the same time by what he says. I mean seriously why do we need bf or someones company? I think its just to share your feelings, talk to him whenever we want and about whatever we want. And we need support in whatever we do. ( Its same for the guys too..they expect the same thing as well). But if it comes to the point that you are not getting any of those, then its time to think about moving on. Getting married just to make your parents happy or just to protect your relationship doesn help solving things between you guys. So, i think that you should just move on. Try talking to different ppl. It doesn have to be nepali ppl to talk to. U can make friends with whoever you want and its time that will help u forget him. Then you r gonna regret why i kept tolerating that guy for such a long time. Why didn i move on earlier?. Well...just a thought. Good luck.