LooteKukur, Now that you brought up the infamous issue of being bokas, I vividly remember attending a get together a few years ago of a so called FAMOUS Co-ED SCHOOL, the graduates from which go to all the cream of the crop institutions here in US. What was so surprising about this party was the shocking behaviour of how guys treated the female counterparts of their very school, something which i had perceived would be the job of BOKAS that go to all guys' school :). Later, one of the gals confided me that the school environment was even worse on how guys treated their own girls and she was equally shocked that it hadn't changed all these years. Of course i am not trying to compare here, but the case you are trying to create of being a boka by going to an all guy's school is really laughable, something that'd only sprout out of JEALOUSY, even as subtle as it might be. After all, it would be the opinion of a fairer sex to decide on who's a BOKA or NOT!!