rnmn, you better shut your mouth and keep working on your own issues. THere are millions of immigrant who are living here astray from their family. If you can not empathize those people, at least have sympathy for them. I wish all immigrants in this country be able to bring their children and spouse and their loved ones. I have helped forwarded this links for a while. We neeeeeeeeed it. Thank you KINA KINA for opening this thread.