I have heard this too my ex use to say that a lot. I donno man people have choices some make different choices. How can anyone be born gay? I mean its not like its in the genes or anything so I doubt that people are born gay. They just make a choice to be gay and hey as long as they don't hit on me they can do what ever they want. Lesbians are hott though just thought I would throw that out here sice we are talking about gay people haha. -peace-