Oh you reminded one thing. I became scared when i met a gay recently. While i was at work one 'khaire' came near to me and said, " you are so cute". I didnt care it. But the next day when he came again and said, " i wanna be yr fren. are you a gay?" oh damn!! And i said ohhh no. Then in nepali 'ma***** rand*** ko chhora" Then he never came later. So be aware of gays. They are gay by born and very few of them are changed to that. in my opinion.