I have same srory like studidman.i have having love or friendship i cant understand but i feel ,i m in love.i love her every word what she is saying.i love her every concept what she speak to me.even i miss her if i forget to call. same way she disclosed her things to say she is married.but i m not saying she is wrong.when i know her reality to feel love with other guy i dont feel she is wrong.i only like to say our system of marriege like arrange marrage is very hard to adjust for every one.there is lot of things we have to adjust.some of then adjust to say that its her punishment some of then try to fullfill their feeling by finding their true one,but in our society we cannt escape to face our culture,things we have.like family.....personly i dont bleam to anyone."love is blind".pls i m sorry if i m wrong.keep on suggesting.