haha...looks like mabf hadn't had fun in sajha for a long time. poor us, taking it seriously and suggesting him to do this and that hahahaha.... that said, there could be someone somewhere on the same or similar boat as his (if he's not faking). that's why i am bothering to reply re ke ajhai. :D ============================ mabf, what you mean you're lost? you're still to decide on whom to go for and whom to leave or what? look, it was not gonna work like this forever, was it? wife at home and mistress (sorry to use this word, but could not find any audibly soothing name to your relationship with that girl) at work... at one point, sooner or later, you're gonna go with ONE, hoina? you canNOT be loving two persons at the same time. tell me, how would you have treated your wife had she cheated on you? try putting yourself on her shoes! addiction is hard but not impossible to overcome. just because she helped you in the past, doesn't mean you have to live your entire life with her cheating your innocent wife. if you want to do that, sure go ahead and tell your wife that you're gonna divorce her. can you do that? if not, then quit the darn addiction, once and for all! you will be left ALONE if you keep on putting your feet on two boats at the same time. wake up man! wake up before it's too late!