Dear friends, I am also married. my wife is in nepal. we have not seen for a year. I can't even imagine, or talk or think about cheating my wife. IT was not our love marriage,i left her 20 days after we got married. She is there. i am here in USA.I would rather keep stay away and spend my time thinking my wife but cheating. I know its hard to stay separated, but you can't cheat your wife. that's not only crime but a sign of unscrupulous mentality and a splitting defense mechanism against yourself. guys don't soothe your heart writing such stuffs in sajha rather bang your head against the wall and give yourself the punishment. I have female friends too, but i have limit settings for them. If you leave your wife, you will be the worst and you have to pay off someday in your life with some misfortune.