John, had I wrote the same thing in other people's thread, they would have seethed and cursed and wrote something like "u r right" just to keep up their online persona pleasing. Or ignored it, if the ego can't handle it. Thank you for not doing that. Ok lemme reply to your comments. I am not talking about love, one can love as many women as one wants to. One crosses the line when one actually has "sex" and confuses love with it. Once married, one should NOT use sex as an excuse for showing love to other besides one's wife. That's the whole principle of marriage! Call me an old fashioned conservative if you will. Just sharing opinions! Let's agree to disagree.