Sunny, True but not quite, she was a divine female. Perhaps a momentary cougar...but not always. It would be extremely derogatory to put her in that category. Although moody, she was one excellent human being, all I have to say was I was victimized by her moodiness...but then she must have been victimized by me in all other ways too. But you are quite right, it is not a man made rule not to lose heart, it is a heart made rule to lose itself.