Oops I missed the main points, oh how about keta/ketiko mama ghar? and what do the rest of the family members do, where r u originally from and how tall u r again eventhough the person is sitting next to him/her? Are these good questions to ask when u r meeting first time somebody like "keta/keti herneko din ma ke". I am not sure how to write well... anyway so it is good to listen from all different people. I think sajha has really diverse type of people. It is good we try to express our views here.........