nepali_hero from what it appears you weren't mature enough to get married. Marriage comes with LOTS of complications. God! When you can't get along with your own sibling , who was born and raised in the same family and environment as you, all the time how do you expect to just click with the person you marry? EVERYONE has problems of adjustment in the beginning of marriage. Quitting is not the only option, specially in a society like ours. From what you wrote it doesn't seem like you love your wife very much, why the hell did you get into a marriage if you weren't open to make compromises? Just to ruin her life? I don't feel sorry for you, but I can feel for your wife. Living with an immature, selfish man like you for the last year and so much have been very difficult for her. It looks like you are not man enough to even give this marriage a try, if not for you atleast for your wife. Get a life, and may be grow up a little bit in the process.