. I could have missed this one if someone didn't remind me to go through it at least! Thanks! Its perfectly OKAY to be yourself, none needs to change in a relationship. And its perfectly OKAY if you think you are in LOVE after so long years of relationship! Well, in these 2 years, you found HER to be someone who you can spend your life with, and she found YOU as not ? Well, that is justifiable too. I appreciate both of your decisions. Perhaps , she thought she was in love with you for those years and she now marks the differences that you two have. Will you still accept her, if she comes someday [ a semester break , lets say ] and says: i think i was wrong! We can stay together! or, will you follow advices here and find the so-called "many fishes" in the sea , with whom , you might repeat the same thing in a relationship of about lets say 2 months or 2 years or more ... I think, there is nothing wrong on your relationship, if you two decide to commit to it. If ONE of you thinks its an END whatsoever! then, perhaps , forgive my harshness , you never loved to commit! some other purposes, there could always be! Remember, she could be genuinely CORRECT on her decision for her life as well! Respect her decision and move on in your life !!! Someone or even she might be the one : let the time tick along with your heartbeats now! It needs rest! : )