hey amazing, i had posted earlier also. you took her for granted and seems like you were not serious about her and now after losing her you want to get her. I am not how much you were/are in love. what will you do after getting her? look man, i darely loved a girl and she took me for granted. our love lasted much more than yours, we had good relationship. we were about to get married and i had met her parents also. they were happy with both of us. but suddenly she met a guy and started going out with him and cheated me. it happened in such a short time. she did everything in just less than a month. I came to know about this and i cried a lot. i loved her, respected her, cared her more than anything in this world. its been almost a year now and i am still in depression. however, i am lot better than i was at that time. I had lost a lot of weight, almost lost my student status because i spilt my final exams. because of that, i am still struggling. i know how it feels when you are in love and suddenly you find your loved one is not with you. my case was lot worse. imagine man, your loved one left you and went with someone else even with so much love you gave to her. it would have been lot better for me if she had talked with me and wanted to quit relationship before i knew about it. you are lucky man, at least your girl did not do it. i know its hard to forget those moments. if i am doing this, i am sure you can do it too. i know i can never love any other girl like her again, but i have to live my life too. most probably she will not come back to me. my parents are asking me to get married and i am not ready yet. this is life i guess. like someone mentioned, do not take thing for granted bro. its really hard to get a true love bro. i was kinda one woman's man. if possible try to talk to her and make things work out, if not, let time decide about your future. that is what i did, i tried a lot from my side, it did not work out, and now time will tell me what will happen in my life. in my case, she might be feeling guilty, as she knows she destroyed my life and she has mentioned that to me as well, so she might not come back to me because of her guilt, but in your case, things are lot different. i hope you will be able to get her back if you really want her as your future wife. if it just your ego, then it will not last too long.