oh yeah, very true captain! especially when people are not ready to introspect and admit that their own arguments could be inconsistent or even completely faulty at times, debate as such is useless. what i think may not always be right and i am open to criticism and amendments if the counter-arguments are rational. to be honest, i don't mind admitting that i am wrong when i am, coz that's when i get a chance to correct myself else i wouldn't grow! i have had such experiences few times in sajha. thanks to the inputs from those logical posters! :-) sajha is a huge ocean and apart from few smart individuals, there are quite a few posters, who would not leave their belief/prejudice just for the heck of it. amidst this scenario, i find myself completely lost at times. so yah, places like nautankiland and it's friendly outset is where i think one would feel much better to spend their time in. as for sajhauser is concerned, i think she came here for a temporary break from her otherwise very busy family life :P good afternoon flips!!! :-). and cleo, what u saying? there was no chemistry between me or her or anyone else for that matter... everything was/will be only 'physics' :P :D