Amazing, Well, neither I am an expert nor I have been through any of these situations. But I have many friends from North ( I presume she is from North). We cannot generalize all the people of North but from my experience so far I can say this ...like the climate they are cold and isolated. They live individualistic life. I have heard that divorce and suicide rate is really high in this region, may be because of this. Yeah, love can happen anywhere and with anyone. But when one of the two falls out of it , it is better to move on with life rather than trying to work on it again. Love is very delicate when it comes to breaking up while it is very strong when one falls into it. So I suggest let it be. Let her go her own way. Even if she stays this time, this is not gonna last long. So why prolong the tragedy. Face it now!. One of my very close friend is living with a boy since last three years. But every time she has only one thing to say "We are different". And guess what she thinks , they are different because he loves to stay inside in weekends and she loves to go out.... Funny no? For them even these minor things matter. Once they find someone they will leave each other. Do you want that kind of relationship? So culture plays a big role I guess. Get someone who has different values and definitions for relationships. This is definitely not your first love. Besides, I don't think you ever loved her. And mind you she is just 20. What you expect from a 20 yr old blond ( no offense)? She has still got to explore a lot in her life. Not like us Nepalese where a girl becomes a mother at this age. You are definitely not her FULL STOP, may be one of the semicolons or just a mere comma in her life. On a funny note: No worries and cheer up! April is just round the corner. And Spring celebration is approaching soon in north. So there will be lots of drunk blond butterflies around if in case you need a time pass. Tum Nahi Aur Sahi Aur Nahi koi Aur Sahi Whatever Amazing… “ Just listen to your heart , shut down your brain system for a while.. go get her ” Good luck!