i think dwi is right about this. You didn't care when you had the chance and now you do care but this could be just because you're losing someone. anyway...even if she gave you a chance...it would be starting over in a way because she feels that you don't understand her. But i think she wants to keep you as a fren forever...which you could do in order to help her not feel like she is totally losing you. If you can't then u can't ..but it's selfish i think. LOL that's just my thinking i could be totally wrong coz sometimes it's better to get over a person when you don't see them anymore. But then it does hurt a lot anyway..good luck