Nepe-jyu, प्यार किया नही जाता हो जाता है दिल दिया नही जाता खो जाता है Now, whatever is going on is happening. Let us not make him do things. Ki Kaso ? my thoughts exactly. perhaps i was being a bit too ruthless in telling amazing to let her go but looking at it from another angle, since it did not work out in the last 2 years (that's A LOT of time) chances are, it will not happen in the last minute, just by crying a river or by trying to force an issue (which again is against the spirit of the two lines that you quoted :P) ... i am not asking amazing to do anything at this point (who the hell am i? :P) but since he was asking for our suggestions, i just wanted to show my 2 unwanted cents from my 'already worn-out and almost completely torn' pocket :P :-) My good wishes are with him! ============================= Danny bro, Rightly put. At times, it looks so easy to point fingers on other people, but it's hard to comprehend introspection... i am not saying, i cannot be a hypocrite myself, however, with a few micro-grams of brain that resides in my head :P, i have done a bit of introspection on few occasions, which tells me, i cannot tell one thing one day and a completely different thing the next day, unless, perhaps in few occasions, when i get 'enlightened' :D. i can still be a hypocrite on other grounds though. :P....i wish i was even close to10 percentage of being a perfect man :P :D LooTe