Love is a blend of various ingredients of bonding. One major ingredient is passion. Most of the time when we talk about love, we are talking about passion. It's that major. All ingredients of love are functions of many different factors. The purpose of this quick note is not to list all those variables but one. "Passion induced by loss" could be what Amazing bro is feeling at this time. Such passion often gets lost when the lost object is recovered. Some residual passion might linger. However, the bulk of the loss induced passion will die after the loss is recovered/reversed. By this, I am not suggesting anything to Amazing bro. My suggestion to all people for all time in every situation including normal time is: be honest-- to yourself as well as to the people you care. Be good. Good things happen. Nepe