Hey danny bro! hehe...i know i am being really harsh on amazing...and i agree with your say....i am not the one to judge who deserves what/whom.... and i also want to give plaudits to amazing bro for coming out openly in public and accepting his mistakes...that takes quite a lot ... that said, i have a strong opinion against people who don't take their relationships seriously. i am quite sure amazing is not a minor or a teenager. he should be able to understand the responsibilities that come up with a relationship. it's easy to fall in love, but it's equally hard to maintain the relationship if one is not serious enough... am open to criticism myself, and i don't mind being pointed out if i commit a mistake... i could have been more diplomatic with my response but after reading what amazing wrote, i feel MORE towards that girl than for amazing himself. again, forgive me for being direct, but that's how i strongly feel.... i have posted my last comment in true spirits. it's not only directed towards amazing but to thousands of others who, i am pretty sure, have gone through similar situation. i have my sympathy for amazing bro...i hope he will make a lesson out of it...what's gone is gone...one needs to learn and grow from it... g' luck! LooTe