my gf dumped me too. but here is the difference between mine and your's story. In my case, i loved her so much. i always had time for her. I was always available. i always gave her everything i could. I always praised her, always talked high about her with my friends , with her friends , with her family. i guess she took me for granted and dumped me, not only that she cheated me. it would have been lot better, i would have felt lot better, had i been told that i am not wanted in her life and she wants to break up with me. but i fould out about her cheating and she got away from me. its been very hard for me. it was unbelieveable. our parents knew about us and we had talked about our marrige with parents and i had met her parents as well. stil, it happened. It not only bad adverse effect on my confidence, mind, love, trust, but also on my career. I am still srtuggling just to save my student status here in usa. I was in lot better position back then. you were lucky dude, you had such a lovely and loving girl and you never cared about her?? amazing.