There is no way I can refute your opinions as you seem to have "been there, done that" experience on this issue. It shuts me up, when you say "While the Nepalis inside Bhutan do not complain of injustices now, who are we to complain!". Perhaps, forced not to complain or chose not to complain, its a different question altogether. I only felt the connection with my identity here, hence I couldn't help raising concerns. Good luck.