. A little drift ! Do u guys ever wonder , that we have to sit on the "jagya" for so long when we are getting married ? I mean , once in a lifetime , YES! BUT , ask them ..both... who are getting married, and i feel : they are NOT liking it! : ) or, are they ? :P The thing is , its their day and they are busy idling on their rituals whereas the people who come to support them, enjoy the HELL ! :P No offense to our rituals , and no offense to marriage in general , BUT , can anyone "married" , for that matter , put forward their experience of how long they had to wait before they actually enjoyed the day! :) If you're not convinced , better get confused cos i am not arguing! :P