By her asking " U ever had Sex", what are you trying to say here that made you life change? Are you impying that you were a virgin prior to the conversation and after that fatelful words, your days of floggin your dolphin ended? If so, whats the big deal?? Man, I'm sorry but you go to any random bar and some of the girls that you converse with will ultimately ask you a somewhat similar hot and heavy question (sometimes even worse)...Doesn't mean that your life should change every time you go out!! much ado about nothing here.