Mr jUst wondering, It is hectic step but it works. Friend of mine had the same story. He came to the US in tourist visa and wanted to stay here because he found better opportunity than in Nepal. He literally had no status. His wife back in nepal in some way managed to come here and applied for asylum and got approved. She brought her family here later on.They are all here now. Your role i assume would be to sponsor her to come visit you durging the period like Christmas, thanksgiving, or any opportunity that you put importance on. THe documents you could send her would be 1. your tax return papers 2. property tax papers 3. your letter stating that you want to see her in the US for what reason(you must state her name, dob, passport number and address in nepal 4. THe letter of sponsorship that you will afford her trip here 5.the copy of your passport 6.the letter from your work( in the letter head what position you hold and what you do) don't forget to let them mention how much you earn in the paper 7. any relevant documents that you hold strong position in the USA. I guess, if you do this, lord will be happy to give some innocent nepalese an opportunity to come to the USA where she could meet her husband and get good life good luck jayamatadi