ok i had a tad bit too much time in my hands today...so yeah pls tolerate ;oP hehe.. anyways i heard someone mentionin "mahabharat" so i quickly deleted all that i previously typed :o( dun wanna keep that 'reputation' re kya ;oP.. but yeah still wanted to share my opinions too(and tho they may be repetition of others post..i was thinkin that way too hai!:@ ;oP hehe)....and well loote bro(hes back hes back!;oP hehe) and capt has already given quite nice thots..so has others(but since i havent read all..thot i better not start mentionin too many names ;oP actually come to think of it..before even i knew i had read all the posts here :oS hehe) this sounds kinda lame esp comin from someone inexperienced in this ;oP and yeah tho experiences teaches well..smtimes we are better off without some/most?..so i cant really say i feel u(plus if i did say that..i might sound too gay ..yeah yeah me and my insecurities ..but that word 'feel' just gives me goosebumps esp when with the same gender ..imagination problem :oS hehe) like eklo mentioned..past is past..arent we supposed to get over the past..tho yeah gettn over is easier said than done..esp when feelns are involved eh?shows ur really serious about her?hehe..and seeing wat u replied to bhatey..guess ur having a problem right now with communication..and def trust?..which are 2 very (if not the most) important aspect in relationship(yeah im assuming!!wat else expected of an ass eh?:oS ;oP hehe) and yeah i guess i can go on and on(and end up like the previous post i typed :o| hehe)...u had a question for us..and i guess we all can only give u suggestions..but only u can answer it in the end..and the answer u come up with..well dunno wat it might lead too..but i guess there wont be just one right answer in such a situation? so yeah just wanna say..good luck..but hopefully u better not jump the gun into makin a decision..cos as they say time always helps hoina?maybe she needs a bit of space esp if ur pushin hard and makin her remember her bad experience(i mean the guy was her ex wasnt he?duh!;oP)and so do u..to clear ur thots and feelns?i mean is she the one u thot u be spending the rest of ur life with?cant think right these days?as capt mentioned..u know feel ur gut..oops i mean u still have those gut feelns dun u?(lame i know!;oP hehe...) relationships arent born strong are they?they get stonger thru hardships..(seriously this sounds lame comin from me ;oP hehe)and right now seems like both of u are experiencing one..they do say it takes two...but in the end..if worst comes to worst..wouldnt u feel better knowin ur tried ur best or just regret later for makin too quick a decision?ok there is another side..one might get too devastated for tryn too hard and failing :oS...but think about the accomplishment?i mean dun we have the sense of more accomplishment when smthing is harder and we managed to get thru it? anyways...there is no one without any dirty laundry hoina?(ok ok there are tonnes of angels out there!dun put another paap onto my already too long paap list just cos i assumed a bit again!:oS hehe)and i guess there are times we always do feel we do deserve better..but ironically only when we lost smthing do we realise we already had smthin that good?;oP hehe...plus u heard that sayn "kukkur haru ta bhoknu matrai jancha..bhoki matrai garcha"(loote bro no offence..kinda might sound like its associated to u..but it def aint hai..i mean typing " biralu haru meow matrai garnu jancha" sounds even lamer and doesnt have the same effects i feel :oS hehe)...hope that made sense esp with my kuyeko nepali :oS hehe...when dogs bark we learn to ignore it hoina?esp if that dog that is barkin is the abandoned dog ;oP hehe.. anyways hope all turns out good..in time :oD hehe...and may the communication and trust come back too..im sure u will get better watever happens...so its all good?and yeah this was def way shorter than before hai ;oP..so... good day!:oD