Shirish and his conspiracy theories! And Elvis just had hip replacement and was seen sky diving over the Mohave:) I hear he is considering bungee jumping from Victoria Falls next :P Since I got dragged into this thread, I guess I might as well address the topic at hand. My first reactions were a bit like Bathroom Coffees but I do think Score is genuinely seeking advice and it would be a bit cold-hearted to make light of a situation that clearly causes him so much anguish. So here I go: Score, go with your gut. Would you be able to spend time with her for the next few weeks, months or years without those thoughts going through your mind? If you feel yes, then, like Loote said, you might want to see if you can make peace with it and put it behind you. On the other hand, if you think it will shroud your feelings about her or cause you not to trust her, then in my opinion, it is not worth it. No relationship in the world is worth stressing over because of infidelity and mistrust. Why add another head-ache to your life? Just my thoughts based on limited information provided here. I wish you the best of luck and happiness.